Going out is not the goal, going in is the success.
走出去不是目的，走进去才是成功。
译文：有钱人家习惯了奢侈无度，教导子弟却成了难事；贫穷人家要谋生计，还是要靠读书获得出路。赏析：衣食无忧的家庭虽然能给孩子提供良好的物质条件，但也最容易让孩子养成穷奢极侈的作风。读书也许不是人生唯一的出路，但却是普通人最好走的那条路，这条路成本最低。
At a restaurant do you order what you know is great， or do you try something new？ Do you make what you know will sell or try something new？ Do you keep dating new folks or try to commit to someone you already met？ The optimal balance for exploring new things vs exploiting them once found is: 1/3. Spend 1/3 of your time on exploring and 2/3 time on deepening. It is harder to devote time to exploring as you age because it seems unproductive， but aim for 1/3.
如果你允许人们做自己，他们就像日落一样美好。当我看着日落时，我不会说：“把右边角落的橙色调柔和一点。”我不会试图控制日落。我怀着敬畏之心看着它展开。
The pain you feel today is the strength you feel tomorrow.