The capacity of the human mind for formulating and solving complex problems is very small compared with the size of the problems whose solution is required for objectively rational behavior in the real world.

译文：对待外人应该宽容大度，但对待自己的子孙后代一定不能宽厚。人情往来一定要周到，但儿女嫁娶之事不必铺张浪费。赏析：父母教育子女一定不能纵容溺爱，否则就是害了孩子一生，正所谓惯子如杀子。父母应该给孩子树立榜样，确立做事原则。嫁女儿一定要选择人品贤良的女婿，一定不要向婆家索要很多聘礼；娶儿媳妇要娶品行端庄、秀外慧中、知书达礼的女子，而不要贪图娘家丰厚的嫁妆。

To write is to confront the silence.