当一个人不能再拥有的时候，他唯一能做的便是不要忘记。

Words have the power to heal wounds or deepen them; the writer must choose wisely.

The stranger is close to us, insofar as we feel between him and ourselves common features of a national, social, occupational, or generally human, nature. He is far from us, insofar as these common features extend beyond him or us, and connect us only because they connect a great many people.

可以教每个人雕刻：必须学会不要米开朗基罗。优秀的程序员也是如此。