Leadership is not about being in charge. It's about taking care of those in your charge.
Don’t take it personally when someone turns you down. Assume they are like you: busy, occupied, distracted. Try again later. It’s amazing how often a second try works.
有人说:“如果用恩德来回报别人对自己的怨仇,行不行呢?”孔子说:“这样的话,你将用什么来报答别人对你的恩德呢?不如以公正对待怨仇,以恩德报答恩德。”