Leadership is not about being in charge. It's about taking care of those in your charge.

Don’t take it personally when someone turns you down. Assume they are like you: busy， occupied， distracted. Try again later. It’s amazing how often a second try works.

有人说：“如果用恩德来回报别人对自己的怨仇，行不行呢？”孔子说：“这样的话，你将用什么来报答别人对你的恩德呢？不如以公正对待怨仇，以恩德报答恩德。”