The ratio of positive to negative emotions that predicts flourishing is about 3 to 1. Above that ratio, people tend to flourish; below it, they tend to languish.
预测蓬勃发展的积极情绪与消极情绪的比例约为3比1。高于这个比例,人们往往会蓬勃发展;低于这个比例,人们往往会萎靡不振。
"Every story has a thousand truths."
We should forget about small efficiencies, say about 97% of the time: premature optimization is the root of all evil.
"To be forgiven is only half the gift. The other half is that we also can forgive, that we can release ourselves from the old, old burden of resentment and recrimination."
The best thing about me is that I’m not you.