爱意味着向消极和积极同时敞开自己——向悲伤、痛苦和失望敞开，也向快乐、满足和我们此前未知的意识强度敞开。
To love means to open ourselves to the negative as well as the positive - to grief, sorrow, and disappointment as well as to joy, fulfillment, and an intensity of consciousness we did not know was possible before.
If you don't take risks, you'll always work for someone who does.
你必须愿意失败，愿意犯错，愿意看起来愚蠢。
你心碎了，就这样。没有什么好抱怨或指责的。你只要需要足够的幸运来找到欣赏你的人。