对心灵的研究就是对生活应对机制的研究。
The study of the mind is the study of life's coping mechanisms.
The beauty of science is that it allows us to see the world not as it is, but as it could be.
She's simply too strange. We can't relate to her, she speaks in a funny way, she comes from an odd place. So we can't relate to her, and when you can't relate to somebody, you don't envy them. The closer two people are -- in age, in background, in the process of identification -- the more there's a danger of envy, which is incidentally why none of you should ever go to a school reunion, because there is no stronger reference point than people one was at school with.
L'amour est la poésie des sens.