"A journey is just as important as the destination, perhaps more so."
旅程与目的地同样重要，或许更重要。
唯一真正的发现之旅不在于寻找新的风景，而在于拥有新的眼光。
And the thing about a successful life is that a lot of the time, our ideas of what it would mean to live successfully are not our own. They're sucked in from other people; chiefly, if you're a man, your father, and if you're a woman, your mother. Psychoanalysis has been drumming home this message for about 80 years. No one's quite listening hard enough, but I very much believe it's true.