被原谅只是礼物的一半。另一半是我们也可以原谅，恢复失去的，修补破碎的。
"To be forgiven is only half the gift. The other half is that we also can forgive, restore the lost, and mend the broken."
不了解敌情，不可以行军打仗，不熟悉洋人的情况，不可以远谋。
The only thing more painful than being an active forgetter is to be an inert rememberer.
"The stories we don’t tell are often the ones that matter most."
最持久的变化来自于理解问题的根本原因，而不仅仅是症状。