Every time you make a choice, you are turning the central part of you into something a little different from what it was before.
每次你做出选择时,你都在将你的核心部分变成与以前略有不同的东西。
画布上的旧颜料,随着时间的推移,有时会变得透明。当这种情况发生时,在某些画作中,可以看到原始的线条:一棵树会透过女人的裙子显现出来,一个孩子给狗让路,一艘大船不再在开阔的海面上。这被称为“悔改”,因为画家“后悔了”,改变了主意。也许可以说,被后来的选择所取代的旧观念,是一种看然后再看的方式。
The world is full of people who will tell you what you can't do. You don't need them. You already know what you can't do. What you need is someone to tell you what you can.
Your golden ticket is being able to see things from other people's point of view. This shift enables heartfelt empathy. It also allows you to persuade others and it is the key to great design. Mastering the view through the eyes of others will unlock so many doors
行为由驱力和习惯强度的相互作用决定。