我不必成为除了我自己以外的任何东西。
I don't have to be anything other than what I am.
The deep, personal material of the latter half of your life is your children. You can write about your parents when they're gone, but your children are still going to be here, and you're going to want them to come and visit you in the nursing home.
你不必完美才能令人惊叹。