The ability to be alone is the ability to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it’s not. It is an existential truth: only those who can be alone are capable of love, of sharing, of going into the deepest core of another human being—without possessing the other, without becoming dependent on the other, without reducing the other to a thing, and without becoming addicted to the other.

Writing is a socially acceptable form of schizophrenia.

真正的领导力在于如何赋能他人解决你甚至未曾预料到的问题。