独处的能力就是爱的能力。这对你来说可能看起来矛盾,但事实并非如此。这是一个存在的真理:只有那些能够独处的人才有能力去爱,去分享,去深入另一个人的最深处——而不占有对方,不依赖对方,不将对方物化,不对对方上瘾。
The ability to be alone is the ability to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it’s not. It is an existential truth: only those who can be alone are capable of love, of sharing, of going into the deepest core of another human being—without possessing the other, without becoming dependent on the other, without reducing the other to a thing, and without becoming addicted to the other.
空白页既是作家最大的恐惧,也是最大的希望。
The most advanced systems are those that work in harmony with nature.
【译文】 孔子说:“早上理解真理,晚上死也值得。”
Leadership is about making tough decisions with integrity.
研究的场所不是研究的对象。你不是在研究村庄,而是在村庄中研究。
"The most important thing a child can learn from a book is that they matter."
Symmetry is a complexity-reducing concept (co-routines include subroutines); seek it everywhere.