You have to figure out what your own aptitudes are. If you play games where other people have the aptitudes and you don’t, you’re going to lose. And that’s as close to certain as any prediction that you can make. You have to figure out where you’ve got an edge. And you’ve got to play within your own circle of competence.
孔子说:“不到苦思冥想时,不去提醒;不到欲说无语时,不去引导。不能举一例能理解三个类似的问题,就不要再教他了。”