Was everyone else really as alive as she was?... If the answer was yes, then the world, the social world, was unbearably complicated, with two billion voices, and everyone’s thoughts striving in equal importance and everyone’s claim on life as intense, and everyone thinking they were unique, when no one was. One could drown in irrelevance.
我喜欢做女人,也喜欢掌控自己的生活。
解释:只要有一人起表率作用,就能带动其他人效仿。一个人的行为和言行影响着他人的行为和态度。
Believe you can and you're halfway there.