"The most important thing in empirical work is to be clear about the question you are trying to answer."

All are gurus to us, the wicked by their evil deeds say 'do not come near me'. The good are always good, therefore all are like gurus to us.

A story is a way of understanding the world.

You are the storyteller of your own life, and you can create your own legend or not.

"To understand a person, you must first understand their silences."

孩子本身就是一个现实，而不仅仅是一个过渡性的存在。