Make decisions when you are ready, not under pressure. Others will always push you to make a decision for their own purposes, internal politics, or some other external need. But you can almost always say, “I think I need a little more time to think about this. I’ll get back to you.” This tactic is very effective at defusing even the most difficult and uncomfortable situations.
要在准备好时做出决定,而不是在压力之下。或为了达到个人目的,或因为内部政治斗争,或因为一些外部需求,其他人总会催促你做出决策。但几乎每次你都可以这么说:“我需要更多的时间来考虑这个问题。我想清楚了再回复你。”即使是在最艰难、最令人不快的情况下,这种策略也非常有效。
Money is the motive.
What you get by achieving your goals is not as important as what you become by achieving your goals. At your funeral people will not recall what you did; they will only remember how you made them feel.
我认为我们已经经历了一个时期,太多的孩子和人们被引导去理解“我有一个问题,这是政府的工作来应对它!”或者“我有一个问题,我会去获得补助来应对它!”“我无家可归,政府必须给我住房!”所以他们把问题抛给社会,而社会是谁?没有这种东西!只有个人男性和女性以及家庭,除了通过人民,政府什么也做不了,而人民首先会照顾自己。
Your vibe attracts your tribe.