We hold ourselves back in ways both big and small, by lacking self-confidence, by not raising our hands, and by pulling back when we should be leaning in.

解释：不说苟且附和别人的话，不做苟且讨好别人的事，行正义之事不必计较别人的诋毁或赞扬。

The computing scientist's main challenge is not to get confused by the complexities of his own making.

人格在你20多岁时比在人生的任何其他时期都更容易改变。

最终，所有的故事都是关于寻找意义的。