I do gymnastics because I love it, not because I'm trying to be the best in the world.

无论生活多么困难，总有一些事情你可以做并且成功。

There's a real correlation between a society that tells people that they can do anything, and the existence of low self-esteem. So that's another way in which something quite positive can have a nasty kickback. There is another reason why we might be feeling more anxious --about our careers, about our status in the world today, than ever before. And it's, again, linked to something nice. And that nice thing is called meritocracy.

为何一个人建了一堵墙，另一个人马上就想知道墙的另一边是什么？

True leadership is not about being in charge. It is about taking care of those in your charge.