世俗的君子,如果他很穷你却说他很富,他就会发怒;如果他不义你却说他有义,就很高兴。 
The pleasure isn’t in owning the person. The pleasure is this. Having another contender in the room with you.
建筑应该是一个活的有机体,而不是僵硬的纪念碑。