无论你是身居闹市却无人问津的贫民，还是在深山都不得清静的有钱人；亲朋之间的关系往往也建立在利益之上，趋利避害是人之常情，人情冷暖、世态炎凉才是人生常态，不是每一个普通人都能达到无私高尚的境界。

The secret of success is learning how to use pain and pleasure instead of having pain and pleasure use you. If you do that, you’re in control of your life. If you don’t, life controls you.

We are not victims of our circumstances. We are products of our decisions.