在日本执教期间,我的发现之一来自观看相扑。比赛完了之后,你根本看不出谁赢了,因为他们不会表现出自己的情绪,以免让失败一方尴尬。这简直难以置信,因此我试着让我的球队保持礼貌。只有在英格兰,才会有赢球之后每个人都吐舌的情况。
——作为一位儒帅,温格谈到了自己为什么让球队保持儒雅和礼貌
And the thing about a successful life is that a lot of the time, our ideas of what it would mean to live successfully are not our own. They're sucked in from other people; chiefly, if you're a man, your father, and if you're a woman, your mother. Psychoanalysis has been drumming home this message for about 80 years. No one's quite listening hard enough, but I very much believe it's true.
Writing is the only way I have to explain my own life to myself.
最好的小说是那些让我们以不同方式看待世界的作品。
Escribir es recordar, pero también es olvidar.
艺术的未来不在于物体,而在于体验。