心就是用来碎的。

When I got to 40 or so... I had the sense when I looked back over my life I would actually see a mess of decisions， a few of which I had thought about， some of which I had sort of stumbled on， and many that I had no control over whatsoever.

译文：只严于律己，从不苛责他人，这是远离愤恨的好方法；只相信自己，从不信任别人，这是导致事情失败的原因。赏析：我们只有严于律己，宽以待人，才能服众，才能赢得别人的尊重，才可以远离祸患。常言道，君子受言以明智，骄横孤行祸必生。只相信自己，对别人的忠言听不进去，迟早会生祸患。