I'm not trying to be provocative. I'm just being honest.
道德不是关于如何使自己幸福的学说,而是关于如何使自己配得上幸福的学说。
I think the best thing you can do is to be kind to yourself and to others.
释义:为人处世不可过分高调,真正的高人懂得隐藏锋芒。