You can't wait for others to arrange your life; what you want, you must strive for yourself.

我认为作为演员你永远不能停止学习。

You have to figure out what your own aptitudes are. If you play games where other people have the aptitudes and you don’t, you’re going to lose. And that’s as close to certain as any prediction that you can make. You have to figure out where you’ve got an edge. And you’ve got to play within your own circle of competence.

有人问作家张晓风：我们怎样才能够爱一个人而不受伤？张晓风如此作答。