解释：别人爱我，我也一定会爱别人；别人厌恶我，我也一定会讨厌别人。

I think that we communicate only too well, in our silence, in what is unsaid, and that what takes place is a continual evasion, desperate rearguard attempts to keep ourselves to ourselves.

You may not realize it when it happens, but a kick in the teeth may be the best thing in the world for you.

优势方法是识别人们的优点并基于这些品质进行建设。

You've got to learn to leave the table when love's no longer being served.

喜欢攻击别人的人，常危及自身，如果自己甘心当愚者，却能恰恰成就自保其身的智慧；喜好自我吹嘘的人，被众人取笑，自以为得计耍小聪明，却恰恰表现出他自欺欺人的愚昧。

The past is never dead. It's not even past.

I like to be a free spirit. Some don’t like that, but that’s the way I am.