I think the best thing you can do is to be true to yourself and to be honest with yourself.
过去是你所记得的,想象你记得的,说服自己记得的,或假装记得的。
出自汉·桓宽《盐铁论·未通》。修筑城墙的人,首先要加厚城墙的地基,然后再把城墙垒高;善于养民的人,首先要巩固人民的产业,然后才能使他们走向富裕。要使人民实现富裕,首先要使人民有稳定的工作。国家应该合理地配置土地资源,使农民有地可耕;还应该整治社会治安,稳定市场秩序,沟通贸易渠道,使商人有买卖可做。只有做好了这些基本工作,人民才能逐渐走向富裕。
Theoretically there is a perfect possibility of happiness: believing in the indestructible element within oneself, and not striving towards it.
The gods have not revealed all things from the beginning to mortals, but, by seeking, men find out better in time.