The best structures are those that disappear into their function.
你活着,你学习。你爱着,你学习。你哭泣,你学习。你失去,你学习。你流血,你学习。你尖叫,你学习。
只管走过去,不必逗留着采了花朵来保存,因为一路上花朵自会继续开放的。