反水不收，后悔无及。
释义：水一旦泼出去，就收不回来，后悔也来不及。
Those who do not have power over the story that dominates their lives, the power to retell it, rethink it, deconstruct it, joke about it, and change it as they change, truly are powerless, because they cannot think new thoughts.
The mind is a constantly unfolding process.
一切事物都是无常的，都是生灭变化的法则；当生灭停止，达到寂静，这才是真正的快乐。
人生は、自分で選んだものではない。でも、選んだものだ。