If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal, not to people or things.
出自汉·桓宽《盐铁论·地广》。释义:不因为是自己的亲近就给以重赏;也不因为与自己疏远就忘掉给人恩惠。
Your best job will be one that you were unqualified for because it stretches you. In fact, only apply to jobs you are unqualified for.