"The only thing to do with good advice is to pass it on. It is never of any use to oneself."

The Moving Finger writes; and, having writ, Moves on: nor all thy Piety nor Wit Shall lure it back to cancel half a Line, Nor all thy Tears wash out a Word of it.

The fact remains that getting people right is not what living is all about anyway. It's getting them wrong that is living, getting them wrong and wrong and wrong and then, on careful reconsideration, getting them wrong again.

出自北齐·颜之推《颜氏家训·教子》。慈，慈爱。则，那么。畏慎，畏惧、谨慎。矣，句末语气助词。父母有威严也有慈爱，那么子女就会畏惧、谨慎而生孝顺之心。孝子是靠严格而慈祥的方法培养出来的，不是一味溺爱就能教育出来的。

忠于自己，永远不要让任何人改变你。