贫家如果要仿效富家的穿衣吃饭及庞大的花费,那就一定会很快招致灭亡。 
孔子说:“有益的爱好有三种,有害的爱好有三种。爱好礼乐、爱好称赞别人的优点,爱好广结善友,有益处;爱好放荡、爱好闲逛、爱好大吃大喝,有害处。”
It's not supposed to be easy.Anyone who finds it easy is stupid.