Resilience is not a trait that people either have or do not have. It involves behaviors, thoughts, and actions that can be learned and developed in anyone.
【译文】 孔子说:“遇到可以说的人却不说,就会失去可与说话的人;遇到不可说的人却说了,就是说话冒失。聪明的人既不去可交谈的人,也不言谈冒失。”
孩子越能够专心,就越能从工作中得到平静,就越能发自内心地纪律或规则。