对世界抱有理想化的看法是错误的。这就是麻烦的开始。这就是一切开始瓦解的地方。
译文:人的福分,并不是靠外在的条件和环境得来的,而是取决于自己内心的修养和行为。只有把握好自己的内心,才能获得真正的幸福和成功。
The past is never dead. It's not even past.
让我来告诉你什么叫真正的爱。真正的爱就是盲目奉献,彻底自卑,完全服从,十足信任,不顾自己并且无视整个世界,把整颗心、整个灵魂都交给那个深深伤害你的人。
I was working at a financial firm in New York City with a bunch of very smart people, and I had a brilliant boss that I much admired. I went to my boss and told him I wanted to start a company selling books on the Internet. He took me on a long walk in Central Park, listened carefully to me, and finally said, "That sounds like a really good idea, but it would be an even better idea for someone who didn't already have a good job." That logic made some sense to me, and he convinced me to think about it for 48 hours before making a final decision. Seen in that light, it really was a difficult choice, but ultimately, I decided I had to give it a shot. I didn't think I'd regret trying and failing. And I suspected I would always be haunted by a decision to not try at all. After much consideration, I took the less safe path to follow my passion, and I'm proud of that choice.