最好的书为读者的想象力留出空间。

You can’t please everyone, so just be yourself.

你的挣扎不能定义你，你如何克服它们才能定义你。

The first fruit of this imagination - and the first lesson of the social science that embodies it - is the idea that the individual can understand his own experience and gauge his own fate only by locating himself within his period, that he can know his own chances in life only by becoming aware of those of all individuals in his circumstances.

每一个挑战都是了解自己新东西的机会。