孤独是人类的常态。培养它。它如何深入你，让你的灵魂有空间成长。

我们可以在不压迫的情况下执行正义。

The ability to be alone is the ability to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it's not. It is an existential truth: only those who can be alone are able to love, to share, to go into the deepest core of another human being—without possessing the other, without becoming dependent on the other, without reducing the other to a thing, and without becoming addicted to the other.

I always believed that when you follow your heart or your gut, when you really follow the things that feel great to you, you can never lose.

我学会了你不应该双手都戴着接球手套度过一生；你需要能够回馈一些东西。