Our capacity to draw happiness from aesthetic objects or material goods in fact seems critically dependent on our first satisfying a more important range of emotional or psychological needs, among them the need for understanding, for love, expression and respect.
不是我们偶尔做的事情塑造了我们的生活，而是我们持续做的事情。
When one is in love, one always begins by deceiving one's self, and one always ends by deceiving others. That is what would calls a romance.