故事是作者写给自己的信，用来告诉自己那些无法通过其他方式发现的事。

The sociological imagination is the most fruitful form of self-consciousness.

Everything negative - pressure, challenges - is all an opportunity for me to rise..

In the end, we only regret the chances we didn't take.

总有人会持有一些愚蠢的信念，但你可以通过提高自己对这些人背后原因的理解，来降低这一现象的讨厌程度。