【译文】 孔子说季氏：“他用天子的舞蹈阵容在自己的庭院中舞蹈，这样的事可以容忍，什么事不能容忍？”
In other words, hold your horses when you're coming to judge people. You don't necessarily know what someone's truevalue is. That is an unknown part of them, and we shouldn't behave as though it is known. There is another source of solace and comfort for all this. When we think about failing in life, when we think about failure, one of the reasons why we fear failing is not just a loss of income, a loss of status. What we fear is the judgment and ridicule of others. And it exists.
