"The only thing to do with good advice is to pass it on. It is never of any use to oneself."
The knowledge that you have emerged wiser and stronger from setbacks means that you are, ever after, secure in your ability to survive. You will never truly know yourself, or the strength of your relationships, until both have been tested by adversity. Such knowledge is a true gift, for all that it is painfully won, and it has been worth more than any qualification I ever earned.
人不能在他的历史中表现出他自己,他在历史中奋斗着露出头角。