The self grows through dialogue with others and with the world.
我不想仅仅作为一名网球选手被记住。我想作为一个好人被记住。
"We carry our homes within us, which enables us to fly."
所以,父母、老师、国君三者,都不能当作做事的法度。 
阅读的行为是一种共情的行为。