接受
we all have a great need for acceptance. But you must trust that your beliefs are unique, your own, even though others may think them odd or unpopular, even though the herd may go“That's bad.”
你沾沾自喜,别人乐于喜欢你;你攻击你周围的某个人,其他的人哈哈大笑;但倘若你解剖你自己的灵魂,所有的人就会嗷嗷叫。——作者原注