生命可以归结为一种简单的选择：要么忙于生存，要么赶着去死。

我不想成为英雄。我想成为一个人。

Make decisions when you are ready, not under pressure. Others will always push you to make a decision for their own purposes, internal politics, or some other external need. But you can almost always say, “I need a little more time to think about this. I’ll get back to you.” This tactic is very effective at defusing even the most difficult and uncomfortable situations.