心理学必须是一门关于生活的科学，而不仅仅是实验室的科学。

Look at me.We all have marks on our face. I have this wrinkle here from your first surgery.I have these wrinkles here from your last surgery. This is the map that shows us where we’ve going.And this is the map that shows us where we’ve been.And it’s never ever ugly.

一个幸福晚年的秘决不是别的，而是与孤寂签订一个体面的协定。