In my early professional years I was asking the question: How can I treat, or cure, or change this person? Now I would phrase the question in this way: How can I provide a relationship which this person may use for his own personal growth?

The void is as important as the solid.

The older one grows, the more one likes indecency.

孩子的基本工作是自私——追求自己的需求和欲望——而父母的基本工作是无私。

"The only way to deal with an unfree world is to become so absolutely free that your very existence is an act of rebellion."

I'm very confident in my decisions because I make them for myself.