夏天的飞鸟，飞到我窗前唱歌，又飞去了。秋天的黄叶，他们没有什麽可唱的，只是叹息一声，飞落在那里。

Reading is a form of prayer, a guided meditation that momentarily makes us believe we're someone else.

每个细节都很重要，因为细节决定成败。

In the end, I've found that it doesn't really matter who you marry. If you like them at the beginning, you probably won't like them at the end. And if you start off hating them, there's always the chance you'll end up thinking they're all right.

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.

快乐激发玩耍的冲动，兴趣激发探索的冲动，满足激发品味和整合的冲动，而爱在安全、亲密的关系中激发这些冲动的循环往复。