成功不是幸福的关键，幸福才是成功的关键

作家成功的真正标准不在于获得的赞誉，而在于触动的心灵。

The ability to be alone is the ability to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it’s not. It is an existential truth: only those who can be alone are capable of love, of sharing, of going into the deepest core of another human being—without possessing the other, without becoming dependent on the other, without reducing the other to a thing, and without becoming addicted to the other.