"Behind every post is a real person with real feelings—let's not forget that."
Do not weep; do not wax indignant. Understand.
The past is never dead. It's not even past.
In the end, I've found that it doesn't really matter who you marry. If you like them at the beginning, you probably won't like them at the end. And if you start off hating them, there's always the chance you'll end up thinking they're all right.