试图独自生活的人不会成功。如果他的心不回应另一颗心，他的心就会枯萎。如果他只听到自己思想的回声而找不到其他灵感，他的思想就会萎缩。

我解决的每一个问题都成为后来解决其他问题的规则。

数据库中最重要的东西是数据模型。如果你把数据模型做对了，其他一切都会随之而来。

The ability to be alone is the ability to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it's not. It is an existential truth: only those who can be alone are able to love, to share, to go into the deepest core of another human being—without possessing the other, without becoming dependent on the other, without reducing the other to a thing, and without becoming addicted to the other.

我不在乎钱，我只想快乐。