You can tell whether a man is clever by his answers. You can tell whether a man is wise by his questions.

脸上有个污点，别人见了都暗自发笑，而自己还不知道，一旦有人直言相告，马上就用手拭去。如果还说：「我脸上有污点，与你有什么关系？」就不合乎人之常情了。可是当别人指出自身的缺点错误时，人们的态度为何就不是这样呢？

The Eskimos had fifty-two names for snow because it was important to them: there ought to be as many for love.